Yesterday, my dear Uncle Tom passed away. It was very unexpected and sent shockwaves through my life. I can't conceive of a world where he doesn't exist. All day I've been telling my sweet daughter memories of Uncle Tom... spending summer after summer at his beach in Laguna... the infamous "sparkler dance" and "Labor Day Swim"... the time he arranged for me to be a ball-girl for the now-defunct California Surf soccer team... the time we flew together in a little five-seater plane to Mammoth for a ski trip... the many Ram's games we attended with him, making ice-cream sunday's in the Coca-Cola box... the time he took me, upon graduation from college, to the venue "auditions" for World Cup '94 (and as a result helped get me a job with the Organizing Committee)... the many, many, many talks we had about life and all its wonderful opportunities... the time I wrote to him, asking him to be my grandfather after his dad passed away... the day he met Lee... the day he met Amelia May.
My list is endless. I am sustained by those memories and thank God I have so many to comfort me. He was a remarkable man. An example for me to follow on how to live a great life - one filled with humanity, compassion, productivity, faith, education, and most importantly, family and friends. As he saw it, everything is possible. He, just like my dad, would never let me think small. Life is too important and precious to be lived small.
Uncle Tom... I miss you terribly and love you with all my heart... I always will. Give Aunt Betty a kiss for me.






